filtrado de resultados por dos opciones de selección

SELECT c.gender, COUNT(*) AS 'count'
FROM ads a 
INNER JOIN 
    (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS country FROM field_values) b 
        ON b.fieldvalue = a.ad_country
INNER JOIN
    (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS gender FROM field_values) c
        ON c.fieldvalue = a.ad_gender
GROUP BY c.gender

Puede agregar los siguientes filtros antes de GROUP BY :

• Año:WHERE YEAR(a.ad_birthday) = '2012'
• País:WHERE b.country = 'Albania'

Véalo en acción .

Luego, después de convertir su mysql_ funciones a mysqli_ o PDO (porque está siendo obsoleto ), simplemente puede mostrar el resultado por género:

| GENDER | COUNT |
------------------
| Female |     2 |
|   Male |     1 |

Actualización 1

Para implementar este código, puede probar algo como esto (no probado):

$link = mysqli_connect("localhost", "user_name", "password", "stock");

if (mysqli_connect_error()) {
die('Connect Error (' . mysqli_connect_errno() . ') ' . mysqli_connect_error());
}

$stmt = mysqli_prepare($link, "SELECT c.gender, COUNT(*) AS 'count' FROM ads a 
INNER JOIN (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS country FROM field_values) b ON b.fieldvalue = a.ad_country
INNER JOIN (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS gender FROM field_values) c ON c.fieldvalue = a.ad_gender
WHERE b.country = ? AND (YEAR(a.ad_birthday) = ? OR YEAR(a.ad_birthday) <> NULL) GROUP BY c.gender");

mysqli_bind_param($stmt, 'ss', $country, $year) or die(mysqli_error($dbh));

$result = mysqli_stmt_execute($stmt) or die(mysqli_error($link));

while($row = mysqli_fetch_assoc($result)) {
echo "There are " . $row[count] . ' ' . $row[gender] . "<br />\n";
}

mysqli_close($link);

Actualización 2

Como no puede usar mysqli por alguna razón, el siguiente código debería funcionar. Tenga en cuenta que se supone que ese país no está vacío.

$query = "SELECT c.gender, COUNT(*) AS 'count' FROM ads a 
    INNER JOIN (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS country FROM field_values) b ON b.fieldvalue = a.ad_country
    INNER JOIN (SELECT fieldvalue, fieldtitle AS gender FROM field_values) c ON c.fieldvalue = a.ad_gender
    WHERE b.country = " . mysql_real_escape_string($country);

if(isset($year)) $query .= " AND YEAR(a.ad_birthday) = " . mysql_real_escape_string($year);

$query .= ' GROUP BY c.gender';

$sql2 = mysql_query($query);
while($row = mysql_fetch_assoc($sql2)) {
    echo "There are " . $row[count] . ' ' . $row[gender] . "<br />\n";
}