Agregue este disparador a su ExpenseTable
CREATE TRIGGER ExpenseSum AFTER INSERT ON ExpenseTable FOR EACH ROW
BEGIN
UPDATE ProjectsTable P
SET ExpenseTotal =
(SELECT SUM(ExpenseAmount) from ExpenseTable
where ExpenseTable.ProjectID= P.ProjectID)
where P.ProjectID = New.ProjectID;
END
No olvides agregar el disparador After Update
y After Delete
para actualizar ExpenseTotal